Sugar, oh sugar sugar....

To be honest... Being an escort, a sugar baby or a mistress is an occupation as old as time... So why make a fuss over it, unless you do not know what you are getting into as the 'sugar baby' or unless you are just a cheap sleaze looking for free sex and get insulted when the one you are trying to hook up with asks for some "sugar" (oh you cheap, cheap man) ...

An understanding or kind gentleman won't mind giving some "sugar".. Heck, when you are courting your girlfriend you also invest in gifts and dinner and such to impress her, so what makes this any different? Don't you give your wives allowances? So when you have a side chick or woman, naturally you ought to give allowances and nice treatments ("sugar") too...

And if you end up getting married to your mistress or sugar baby (2nd or 3rd wife), you also need to pay allowances and be fair to her....

My reasoning is simple... As a divorcee or a widow (or if single), we sometimes crave the companionship of the other sex...

Normally, we date people we meet via aquaintances, work, and even dating apps.. And men being men, a majority of them just want nothing then to get into your pants as soon as possible...

It can be frustrating dating men which end in mediocre boring conversations or even one night stands or such and usually end up with nothing, because most men are just dogs thats what they do...

Now, with the pandemic affecting many people, most of us just want nothing more then to supplement their income and perhaps having some fun doing it, so whats wrong in finding a sugar daddy....

If you do not know what sugar daddy or sugar baby is, "sugaring" is a form of dating in which one partner financially supports the other, often in the form of cash or gifts....

Sugar babies have been known to receive thousands of dollars in cash, trips across the country or even the world, access to five-star hotels and restaurants, and expensive gifts like shoes and clothing most of us never could have ordinarily afforded.... So what is wrong with that?? Jealous, some? I am!! And I won't mind being a sugar baby or a kept woman myself if I could..

Personally, I think it's smarter to be a paid slut to someone who can afford you and takes care  of you then just a cheap slut who just fucks around for free... 

Afterall, meeting all those plenty of men here and there, in real life, in dating apps who are just trying to get laid free are just so tiresome... As men seem to think we divorcees or widows are just soooo desperate to get laid...

Afterall, getting something out of the "immorality" of having sex or an affair in my opinion is much better then those just opening their legs left and right, here and there and fucking any Tom, Dick and Harry....

I for one do not want to get married again and risk my daughter getting in unwanted situations with any step fathers (something I personally had gone through) and if there was someone out there who wanted to be my boyfriend/ sugar daddy or whatever you wanna call it and help support my lifestyle, spoil me and pamper me, why would I say no...

It is each and everyone's choice and like an article I read...

Isn't it just so ironic our very moral leaders think that it’s “immoral” for sugar babies to offer sweet “companionship” to rich men in exchange for branded handbags, clothes, expensive lifestyle and yes, money....

These young ladies were merely following the "glorious" example set by most politicians who lubricated the back door to enjoy the ecstasy of power? Why blame the young, when the elders have been guilty of worse sins - betraying the trust of thousands of voters in exchange for gifts far more lucrative than what the sugar babies are getting...

And the funny thing is many of these significant men are the ones keeping a mistress or a sugarbaby themselves...

I speak from experience as in my younger days, I had been offered the position of mistress /sugarbaby before... Some YB offered to set me up in a nice condominium and pay me an allowance of RM2000 a month to be his... But unfortunately, I did not like him, and I liked my freedom more, so I did not accept...

Ok I rest my case...